DIY Divorce Checklist

Divorce Filing Checklist for Self-Represented Filers

Use this checklist to understand what usually happens before, during, and after filing an uncontested divorce. Requirements vary by state and county, but the same core workflow appears again and again.

Quick takeaways

What to know first

  • Confirm state and county residency before preparing papers.
  • Choose the correct packet: with children or without children.
  • Sign, notarize, file, serve, and finalize in the order your court requires.
  • Court filing fees, service fees, and certified copies are separate from document preparation pricing.

Before you start the paperwork

A successful DIY divorce starts before the first form is filled out. The most important question is whether the case is truly uncontested. If both spouses agree on all major terms, document preparation can be much smoother.

  • Confirm where the case should be filed based on residency and county rules.
  • Write down all agreed terms for property, debts, support, and children if applicable.
  • Gather marriage date, separation date if used, spouse contact information, and current addresses.
  • Check whether either spouse wants a former name restored after divorce.

Documents to gather

The documents you gather before using an online questionnaire will reduce delays and help keep the final packet consistent. You do not need every financial detail for every case, but you should know the major items you are dividing.

  • Marriage certificate or exact marriage date and location.
  • Property list, vehicle details, mortgage information, lease details, and major account names.
  • Debt list, including credit cards, personal loans, student loans, and medical debt.
  • Children names, birthdays, addresses, insurance information, childcare costs, and agreed parenting schedule.

Filing sequence to expect

Most uncontested cases move through a predictable sequence: prepare, sign, file, serve or waive service, wait if required, and submit final documents for court approval.

  • Prepare the opening petition or complaint and any required cover sheets.
  • File the opening documents with the clerk or approved e-filing portal.
  • Arrange formal service or obtain a waiver or acceptance of service where allowed.
  • Submit the final decree, settlement agreement, and child-related forms according to court instructions.

Practical workflow

Step path for this topic

Use this sequence as a planning aid. Your state, county, judge, and case facts can change the details.

1

Confirm uncontested fit

2

Choose state and county

3

Prepare state-specific documents

4

Sign and notarize where required

5

File and pay court fee

6

Complete service or waiver

7

Follow waiting period and final hearing instructions

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FAQ

Common questions

What is the first step in filing for divorce yourself?

The first step is confirming where you are eligible to file and whether the case is uncontested. After that, prepare the correct state-specific opening documents.

Do I file every divorce document at once?

Not always. Some courts require opening documents first and final decree documents later. Others allow a larger packet in agreed cases. Follow state and county instructions.

Can DivorceReady file my checklist items with the court?

No. DivorceReady prepares documents and instructions. You file with the court, clerk, or approved e-filing portal as the self-represented filer.